Strength!!!!

M Back………after such a long time. Extremely sorry for staying away for so long, actually my life has been going through lot of ups and downs during this period, so that’s the reason I was trying to correct few things.

But now it looks that time is finished for staying away so here am I. I personally started a new business in consulting form, wherein I am working as a recruitment specialist for everyone. “Everyone” means who actually pays me gud ;-)

Jokes apart, I actually had a very bad time during all those days and seems that it is actually hard continuously for some time now. But never lose trust on yourself is the only key that you have to keep cos this time is not that hard that of accident one. And when that time has been passed so this will also pass. It won’t stay for so long and God has giving me these challenges as he must have thought of something very good for me. I only have to wait for a good time when he’ll give that Good thing to me. Just need to keep my morale up that’s it. Need an inspiration to boost my morale up. And I feel yes I’ll be able to do it.

Rest we will talk next time, till the bye and take care!!

FAMILY

Today again m thinking too much....I am really not able to figure out...It hurts when the one whom you love most in the life...gets angry on you...somone you love badly...someone for whom you have disconnected yourself from your "family"....specifically cos they are not in much of a favour....

"Family" - After fighting consistently with my loved one, I suddenly shook myself today....Who are those people......who am I making suffer because of my indifferent behaviour....who m I shouting upon.......with whom m I fighting with......."My Family"...these are the people who are concern for me, more than anyone in this entire world...they are just mine and I AM???? doing what ..........I AM HURTING MY OWN FAMILY......what's their fault????? why m i doing this....I've no answer to this question.......but I also do love her...but does my love for her provides me the license to hurt my family???? This is the question now I do have in my mind. And i really need the answer for it..cos otherwise I'll become impatient...or insomanic.....

Yesteday only my Dad asked me Gagan u are restricting yourself to you only, why are you doing this?? You don't even talk to us these days...I was blown off ....I had no answer to them.....till tomorrow.

But today I think I am moving towards a decision. Which I feel will be best for us.

Positive Attitude

It is a process by which the success will come to you ultimately, because you’ve been following the positivity and success will be coming in their ways only, who are spreading positivity everywhere. I feel there are two types of people on this earth, the one with this positive attitude and the other one without these vibes.

People who carry these vibes, success will come to them, sooner or later, easily or by hard work, they have to win because positivity is their biggest strength. Positivity could be in any term, by not speaking lie, working hard, dedication whatever it is good. It can be useful by any ways, because it will be giving self satisfaction to a person and ofcourse sooner or later success will be definitely theirs. The failure can be possible to those who carries negative attitude but for the people who contains positive vibes sooner or later the success will be theirs. The short term success is achievable to those who carries negative attitude but in long term the only key to success is the Positive Vibes

For me it matters a lot and I also would like to know your views on this…..

GOD

Generator……..Operator……..Destroyer……is the full meaning of the word GOD. Generator – the one who generates everything……..Operator – the one who operates everyone and Destroyer – the one who destroy everything.

This is as per English Mythology.

If we talk about Hindu traditions the three people are Bramha, Vishnu and Mahesh.

Bramha is known as the creator of everyone (the Generator) , Vishnu is the Operator of everyone and Mahesh – Shiv is known as Destroyer of everybody.

The logic remains the same in both the traditions. But the GOD is actually not visible to any of us. It is just the matter of trust and faith of the one who believes in his existence. It is absolutely a matter of discussion that whether or not we should belive in him.

As per me there are many things which can’t be seen by naked eyes, only trust and faith can value their presence. Let me disclose that I also do belive that he is there to help us out. I do not start believing in his existence after my accident, I believed in him from the starting. And today the respect for him increases like anything. Because I know about that situation as well, where doctors also refused to say anything about my condition. And it is because of him I am here today.

There are number of examples you can find where everyone lost hope about anything and then suddenly miracle happens and thins goes in their favor. What was that?...... just an incident, No, it is the clear indication of his presence around us.

But then there are many people among us are known as ‘Theist’ and ‘Atheist’. Theist – are those who believe and trust in God while Atheist - those who are nonbelievers. The only way to show your love towards him is Trust and Faith. With these you can show your love towards him the trust and faith and yes, you believe in his presence. For you there are no doubts about his strength. His presence for you is above and everything. Your belief is his greatest strength so that even when he is not visible to anyone form naked eyes, his presence can be felt easily.

While Atheist do not belive in God. They actually decline all the fact of his presence straightaway.

This is an endless discussion though because no one can actually win in this argument. Theists do have their own supporting answers while Atheist has their own.

But yes for me his presence is valuable; I do belive in his presence right from the starting and after accident much more faith in him has developed for me. And I also do belive that if your heart and mind is clean, then you don’t need to do any more. Because He also wants that only that mind, heart and thoughts will become clean, that’s it. Then it hardly matters if you go to temple everyday or not for me if your Heart, Mind and Thoughts are clear, you have fulfilled the need to go to temple and wash yourself.

I Believe in GOD and I have faith and trust on him.

Moments in life - the next life

April 15,2009 - the date, I will never be able to forget. I met with an accident on the same date, I don't know how, where, but yes it happened with me. A painful experience I had afterwards, though I din't even knew what happen with me after that for the next 22 days. I was in coma. Had ventilator fixed on me and the chance that I'll survive were very less. But tochwood I survived and getting back on track.

But that sleep has broken many people, family, friends, well-wishers everyone. All of them were in in immense pain, and even today I can feel their pain, Immense pain. Pain which has been given by me. Knowingly or unknowingly but yes given by me.

But in that bad time, I can recognize my strength even today as well. My Family is the biggest proven strength of mine. I can easily say today that if I am back today on tract because of my Dad, Mom and my younger brother. Great well wisher like Pammi, she din't even thought of leaving me in my bad times, Hats off to her, friends like Zafar, he is the most wonderful person I've met, we know each other since our MBA from IMT has started at DIIMS, ITO. Rite Zafar? Kalpana & Amit, we share a great bond again thank you so much to all my friends to be my strength during that time.

One more name I would like to mention here, friendship with her was not very old, but understanding might have increased with time. But she was there all the time, not even with me but was with my family too. I was not expecting this but yes she's like this only, Her name is Neha.

Those were the worst days of my life, I had forgotten everything, how to talk how to walk entire me. My Dad has supported me as if a new born baby is being taught how to walk, how to talk everything. I had also forgotten how to write even today I can write but not with a smooth pace.

At that point of time Almost everyone has given me every kind of education...do this, do that..and I was like...please....but that was a tough time for me for sure.

May 08 2009 It was just another morning. I opened my eyes after a good sleep. I felt so. My eyes opened to an all new place - a different cieling, and the fan was not the one i always woke up looking at, spinning away smoothly during summer and kind of hibernating during winter.The walls were different, the wall hangings were different. nothing looked familiar. I groped to recall how got in here. a very different place, different bed, new faces, kind of not the familiar expressions on those faces too. amongst those faces was my mom sitting with her sweet face and every loving eyes. in those eyes i saw a concern which I had never seen before and then she broke the moment she sees my eyes open.

My eyes rolled a bit to get an idea where I was since this was not my bedroom neither any other room in my big house. I knew every nook and corner of my sweet home but was amazed at the different look today, specially since I was getting up from a normal sleep. I couldnt have imagined things change just like that during sleep. I was surely not in Alice's wonderland. Then the slow realization that I was not at the right place. I was told where I was.

Those fraction of seconds that changed things in my life, my families lives, and the lives of my sweet and dear friends.

more to follow.......

Myself

Hi all, just got the oppurtunity to share my thoughts with you all. I think i am lucky enough to get this chance to share my views with you.

First of all let me just introduce myself to you.

My Name Gagan Ghansal, I am almost 27 years old now. I had a great confidence within me and very good nature as well. I had a carefree attitude and was managing things very smoothly(be it whatever). My Nature was friendly, therefore I was able to make friends very easily. I was one angry young man in short. I have done my schooling in commerce and graduation in Industrial Relations & Personnel Management from Dyal Singh College DU and MBA in HR from IMT.

College days were great, after the rules of school, the college atmosphere was simply very good. I have started working in my early age through HR (after college). And today I am having 5+ years of experience in the similar field.

The nature was friendly but if you ask today, the friends I have is very less. Very few good friends. I lived my life fullest with all carefree attitude within me. Whatever hurdle come whatever problem comes, I treat them very small and get all the sucess against them.

Things very smooth, life was literally rocking till something happebed 15 April 2009.

I had met with a sever accident on the same date. I was in the hospital for about 1.5 months and I was in coma for more than 22 days. I didn't knew what happened during those days. I have no clues. What I can see is pain on everyone's face immense pain which I only can see not even speak. I was in a diffrent condition altogether, I forgotten how to speak, walk or even how to write. I think I was equivellant to new born baby at that point of time.

My condition was of a new born baby only, the only difference was at that point of time I was more then 25 years of age.

I've hurt many people at that point of time my Parent, friends, official collegues and all near dear ones.

But family grievance is greator than everyone's grievance, they were in immence pain because of me and nobody can even think of sharing it. They actually take every care of me to make me standable in this world. Whatever I am today is because of their hard work only.